About the user

hello! i'm Ven. But unless were close I'd prefer to be called by a kin name you can associate me with!

i'm 18, an aquarius-capcricorn cusp, aro-ace and genderfluid (he/she/they are all okay irl since i'm very 'feminine-presenting' but i prefer he/they only if it's online.).

i'm diagnosed with depression, severe anxiety and ADHD.
self-diagnosed with panic disorder and borderline personality disorder, i show severe symptoms of both but am currently unable to be diagnosed.

i promise i'm very friendly with people! i'm not intimidating to talk to, but i do really struggle to hold conversations and am often in low moods.

RULES

TRIGGERS

-DR*G USE. OF ANY KIND. I AM SEVERELY SEVERELY SEVERELY TRIGGERED BY THIS. NEVER MENTION IT TO ME. TAG IT. IF YOU USE ANY I WILL PROBABLY BLOCK YOU.

-PLEASE DO NOT TALK TO ME ABOUT ANYTHING SEXUAL. EVER. IT WILL IMMEDIATELY INDUCE A PANIC ATTACK. it is never ever appropriate or okay to mention it to me.

-alcohol use. even minor.

-smoking. it's gross, please tag any mentions or art of it.

-irl nudity, whether its inherently sexual or not. tag it if you post it please.

Rules

-tag dr*g use, smoking, sexual things and alcohol use of any kind. don't breathe a single word of any of them where i will see or hear. if you post anything that doesn't sit right with me, i will unfollow/softblock. (if i need to vent about these things, i will use keywords "d", "sm", "nsfw" and "alc" because i hate even seeing the word and am severely uncomfortable having to use it even more.)

-This account is mostly unfiltered, but I'll be sure to tag anything you need to be tagged!

-Please don’t follow if you are a double of any of the kins I've stated I don't want to see doubles for.

-!!Lance doubles will be softblocked!!

-If we're canonmates, please don't tag/interact with other Lance's!

-!!Please use the default pronouns for the shift I'm in unless stated otherwise!!

-I will unfollow anyone who makes me feel uncomfortable/unsafe with no warning.

-before you follow me, please tell me if you associate with @cherri.ice.